Had some insight into why guests don't mention allergies or restrictions. I asked about allergies and got that hesitation that usually presages a long list of problems. Guest then gave me a few things but then said, 'But don't worry about me, I'll just pick. I'll have a bagel and some yogurt and granola.'
I told her this is not a buffet. We are going to plate up a breakfast that's why I need to know what she can't eat.
She then explained she would never have mentioned anything if I hadn't asked as she assumed there would be a buffet for breakfast.
So there you go.
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