This is just a fable about the old girl and the dishes. Although it really happened today.
This is the story: My grandmother is 90 1/2 (her words, she adds the half as she is pretty proud of that) and is coming out in July, to surprise the grandkids and great grandkids - my sister and family coming in from Ireland. She wants to "say her goodbyes". I am on the sly booking all this for her to get here, wheelchairs at airports and more.
Our guest who is a lady in her high 80's here with daughter showing daughter where she was born 50+ years ago. A walk down memory lane. I decided to bring out the china that was my 90 1/2 year old grandmother's PARENTS from their wedding. I have a photo, yes a very old photo, showing her parents with their parents. I show this to the mother-daughter here.
I tell this old girl that I wanted her to know about the dishes she dined on, and I show her the one in my hand. I tell her I am going to tell my grandmother when she is here as she will love that very much!
So like all people, she begins to tell me the dishes her daughter has. Who cares. It means nothing to me, I am showing you the dishes YOU ATE ON and the PHOTO of the 90 1/2 year old's parents on their wedding day with their parents.
I turn to the daughter, who already told me she is "a foodie" and the mother corrects and says "no, she is gourmet" and I ask "Do you use them?" She hesitates and stumbles over her words.
The finally says "No."
I ask "Why not?"
I then leave them with my parting comment of plates were meant to be eaten on and I bet YOUR MOTHER would be thrilled to see you using them and enjoying them vs in a cupboard covered in dust. No they may not be everyday dishes, but it is not everyday you have those you love with you!
This is the story: My grandmother is 90 1/2 (her words, she adds the half as she is pretty proud of that) and is coming out in July, to surprise the grandkids and great grandkids - my sister and family coming in from Ireland. She wants to "say her goodbyes". I am on the sly booking all this for her to get here, wheelchairs at airports and more.
Our guest who is a lady in her high 80's here with daughter showing daughter where she was born 50+ years ago. A walk down memory lane. I decided to bring out the china that was my 90 1/2 year old grandmother's PARENTS from their wedding. I have a photo, yes a very old photo, showing her parents with their parents. I show this to the mother-daughter here.
I tell this old girl that I wanted her to know about the dishes she dined on, and I show her the one in my hand. I tell her I am going to tell my grandmother when she is here as she will love that very much!
So like all people, she begins to tell me the dishes her daughter has. Who cares. It means nothing to me, I am showing you the dishes YOU ATE ON and the PHOTO of the 90 1/2 year old's parents on their wedding day with their parents.
I turn to the daughter, who already told me she is "a foodie" and the mother corrects and says "no, she is gourmet" and I ask "Do you use them?" She hesitates and stumbles over her words.
The finally says "No."
I ask "Why not?"
I then leave them with my parting comment of plates were meant to be eaten on and I bet YOUR MOTHER would be thrilled to see you using them and enjoying them vs in a cupboard covered in dust. No they may not be everyday dishes, but it is not everyday you have those you love with you!