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Nothing is working out as it should... so I just want to go back on vacation.

The leak - The workmen just left today, finally. We managed with the guests and a little in discounting, but now it's back to normal, after we scrub, scrub and scrub.

The break-in - Did I mention that they tried to break in to our house while we were out. Got scared by my automated lights, so nothing was taken, but I had to fix the door to prevent it from happening ever again.

The neighbour - Complained that my security lights shine too much on her side. This is the same neighbour who is forever telling pork pies to everyone about me. I'm ignoring her request... being a good neighbour is a two way street.

The move - My mom moved yesterday... and I'm still dealing with those consequences.

The inheritance - Boxes, couches, chairs, pictures, dining room furniture. The worst of which is that we moved our hutch downstairs and put in her hutch... but they packed the shelves into her boxes, so I can't put anything back... because I don't have shelves. The new dining room table is longer, so I need a new pad for the table (so throw in more shopping). I did manage to put on new sliders on the chairs, though.

The gardener - My gardener can't come this year. Hired a new guy yesterday, but the ground is a little wet around here (Noah went by in a Kayak, earlier) and so we have to see if we can do it next week.

The digital revolution - Switched to all electronic locks, but going through batteries because the signal from the controller is weak (we have it set up centrally.) Still trying to figure out how to fix that. I have some repeaters on order. Tried to put in switches but house wiring is so old that there are no neutrals and these switches want neutrals.

The repairs - Other repairs to do in the house, of course, since it's summer, so workmen, quotes, etc.

The B&B violation - They booked a room even though the reservation system said it was CLOSED and aren't taking responsibility. I'm starting to get ANGRY because it's a long weekend and they booked two days and because they were closed, the price wasn't set properly. How do you NOT understand CLOSED to booking?

I want a vacation already.
 
Maybe you should just block everything off for a few days and CHILL and get yourself back in order.
 
Maybe you should just block everything off for a few days and CHILL and get yourself back in order..
EmptyNest said:
Maybe you should just block everything off for a few days and CHILL and get yourself back in order.
Wish I could... I have rooms booked until July already. :)
 
Oy!
I totally understand wanting to get away from the mess and stress.
 
Perfect! Come visit us.... You knew I would say that... Where did your mom move? Glad to have you back with us again!
 
Perfect! Come visit us.... You knew I would say that... Where did your mom move? Glad to have you back with us again!.
I would have liked to say 4000 km away, but actually to a nice apartment, a little smaller, that is completely FLAT, has wide doors and an accessible bathroom. And it's actually closer by car.
 
You have our sympathy as we are just now finishing up the last bedroom at the lodge property and its driving me mad! also DH's mum is not moving but we have her out to the extension which is her final destination hopefully unless she actually buys a flat which I am not holding my breath for.
 
You have our sympathy as we are just now finishing up the last bedroom at the lodge property and its driving me mad! also DH's mum is not moving but we have her out to the extension which is her final destination hopefully unless she actually buys a flat which I am not holding my breath for..
Jcam said:
You have our sympathy as we are just now finishing up the last bedroom at the lodge property and its driving me mad! also DH's mum is not moving but we have her out to the extension which is her final destination hopefully unless she actually buys a flat which I am not holding my breath for.
I was thinking of you yesterday when I came across a new B&B in town and they have no photos of the rooms, the interior, the food, etc. Just a button to make a reservation. I don't think I could make a reservation without knowing what something of the interior looked like.
 
You have our sympathy as we are just now finishing up the last bedroom at the lodge property and its driving me mad! also DH's mum is not moving but we have her out to the extension which is her final destination hopefully unless she actually buys a flat which I am not holding my breath for..
Jcam said:
You have our sympathy as we are just now finishing up the last bedroom at the lodge property and its driving me mad! also DH's mum is not moving but we have her out to the extension which is her final destination hopefully unless she actually buys a flat which I am not holding my breath for.
I was thinking of you yesterday when I came across a new B&B in town and they have no photos of the rooms, the interior, the food, etc. Just a button to make a reservation. I don't think I could make a reservation without knowing what something of the interior looked like.
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Weve got some photo's but not a full set as yet as still finishing the last room - have to run about and take some more! used to be more worried about reviews but considering people were booking the lodge with no photo's and no reviews ive decided to care less.
 
Just moving your mom alone is enough to cause severe stress. That is a turning point, and sorting out family belongings is tough psychically. Innkeeping itself is stressful, even on good days when all the guests are great and nobody complains! Sorry to get all wooga-wooga West Coast woo-woo on you, but taking an hour or even 1/2 hour in the day to - whatever you want to call it - be still, meditate, pray - staying off the phone and computer and all the nagging devices - can let you breath for a bit.
That's a lot to contend with in a short space!
 
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