Inn-sitters - to hire or not to hire!!??

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As an Inn-sitter I felt a need to speak up on this subject - maybe a little late for some of you, but better late than never! 

First - A B&B is a very personal business and if I, as a potential guest, call and get an answering machine (and possibly no reply for a day or so) I will go on to the next B&B where someone will talk to me and take my reservation!

2nd - A vacation is not really a vacation if you are attached to your phone and computer.

3rd - If you close down/shut your doors, etc. you are losing all business that may come in while you are gone and if you don't return messages you are losing any future business.

An Inn-sitter will be there to answer the phone, take care of any last minute guests while also taking care of guests who booked in advance.  I have noticed last minute bookings are way up this year.  I just got back from a NY job where there was very little on the books when I arrived - I thought I would at least have Tues, Wed. and Thursday off.  Well, the phone never stopped ringing and I never had any day that I didn't need to make breakfast and clean!  The owners were thrilled, I was thrilled.  Since I charge depending on room occupancy, I made over $1,600 and the owner made over $2,500 - more than enough to pay for their vacation!   

I guess it depends on if you are trying to run a business or if owning a B&B is just a hobby for you.  

All you Aspiring Innkeepers out there - I highly recommend getting into the Inn-sitting business.  It will give you a good taste of what running a B&B is like.  All the fun without all the responsibilities of owning!  Kinda like being a Grandparent, you spoil the kids and then you get to go home. 

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NEVER HIRE THE PO'S TO INNSIT!

We did that out of desperation.  Our son got married end of  December, 2010 in another province.  We had arranged 4 mos. earlier for our regular innsitter to stay for the 5 days between Christmas and New Years when we would be attending the wedding. .  It was all planned and she was happy to do that as she always is.  Two days before we were about to leave (and almost all rooms booked up for the 5 days) she took ill and had to have emergency surgery.  We were desperate.   We called the PO's who still live in our city by the way. 

Though it was nice to have them last minute, we had to pay them more than we normally would, but they sure did not go above and beyond their call of duty like our regular innsitter.  I'm not even sure if they even did the basics.  I do know that the iron and vacuum cleaner were never used.  Even though they had it as a b & b for 2 years and we have had it for 5 years with our occupancy rate 4 times higher than when they had it, they still try to give us advice on how things should be done.  And now, since they were here in Dec. we got our first not so good review and it was during the time they were here.    UGH!

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Although from what I have seen here, it sounds as if that would probably be the case - but I hope innkeepers will look at this on an individual level. I know that WHEN (I am positive about this) my B & B is sold as a B & B, I will be available to the new owners AT THEIR REQUEST ONLY for advice or help and that includes innsitting for them IF they need. I plan to be as protective of this B & B after it is sold as I am as its owner, meaning do nothing to endanger it. I have learned to back off and have with many of the positions I relinquished at end of term or by finding a willing victim replacement.

I am truly sorry you had this experience.

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That is too bad!  There is the reason why they are PO's and only lasted 2 years I guess!  Chalk it up to lesson learned, but I do know a lot of good owners out there that would make excellent Inn-sitters!  PO's should have to go thru the same screening process that Inn-sitters go through - not every one is a match for your Inn and your way of doing things.  Now you probably value your regular Inn-sitter even more, but it would be wise to get another Innsitter for backup!

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I am lucky as I have a very good friend with 10 years hotel/B&B experience who can sit in for me if I want a day off or my parents only live across town and have 20 years B&B experience (they are no good with computers however) I do find more and more bookings are comming through the internet so I can pick them up on my phone (the emails) and the calls. I always like to have someone here though if I can as we are in a location where we do pick up a lot of passing trade. (ie 3 rooms a day lately) so it does pay to have someone here especially as three of the walk ins have been for over 5 nights! I would prefer a paid inn sitter but it would hurt my parents feelings so I am in a catch 22 situation. I do consider taking on people now and again who want experience but I worry it would take a lot of my time. Also one of my majour problems is the age of my building plus as we all know there is always something falling off of something! It is just when something breaks! Luckily our on call handyman lives next door and he does all handyman things plus plumbing so that does help.

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Welcome to the forum SueEllen.   

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Welcome suellen!  Sorry I'm comin' in late on this...

I had a lovely post all typed up and bumped the wrong button.  Ugh!

I strongly agree that it is important to answer the phone when someone calls.  I always forward the phones when I'm out and I know I've gotten reservations because of it.  And it is no bother to process reservations while I'm on vacation as I'll be on the 'puter anyway.

As a small B&B we've always closed when we've gone away, which we do during our slow times.  If I were to go away when I was expecting guests I would have no idea how to go about getting an innsitter.  How DOES one find an innsitter?  Is there a going rate?  I do have an invitation I declined for January that maybe I should reconsider...

It seems to me that hiring an innsitter is a little like hiring a babysitter.  That is, I want them to be able to handle an emergency, feed my kids what and when I want them fed, and generally maintain the rules I have in place.  I would not expect them to be a replacement mom.  In the same way, I'd want an innsitter to know what to do in an emergency, feed my guests appropriately, and generally maintain the atmosphere we've created.  I would not expect them to balance my books, perform regular maintenance or repairs, or create new policies.  I think this might be what suellen was trying to say... an innsitter is not creating from scratch but maintaining what another has done.

Either way, Welcome suellen!

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KK,  Thank you for understanding - you are much better with words than I am!  I read your whole profile and I think we probably think alike!  I will be going through your area the end of this month and would love to stop for a visit and I can answer all your questions about how to go about finding an Inn-sitter.  Of course I'm going to tell you you just found one!  Or I can e-mail you my references - let me know how you would like to proceed.   I think you should definitely reconsider that invite for January!

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suellen222 wrote:

KK,  Thank you for understanding - you are much better with words than I am!  I read your whole profile and I think we probably think alike!  I will be going through your area the end of this month and would love to stop for a visit and I can answer all your questions about how to go about finding an Inn-sitter.  Of course I'm going to tell you you just found one!  Or I can e-mail you my references - let me know how you would like to proceed.   I think you should definitely reconsider that invite for January!

LOL!  You read my whole profile... you must be a good reader!  I'd love to have you stop by... email me or give me a call to set up a good time.

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I figure if someone takes the time to write about themselves, I am going to take the time to read it to try to get to know them better!  I sent you an e-mail, but was not able to attach my references.  I will have your B&B info with me on the road so I can call you when I know when I will be going through - I may need a place to stay also!  Looking forward to meeting you. 

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WOW, been away for a while but as I read the many responses, yea sueellen you seem condensending to some. I see what you mean though, its as if when we all strarted we has lots of experience running our Inns and we where instantly professional innkepers because we "owned and operated an Inn". First and foremost not one single guest has ever ever asked weather we where professional innkeepers because our first year was just an experience for us. We never owned an inn, neither one of us had ever really worked in the hospitality industry as in--housekeeping, reservations etc of a hotel, motel or anything of the sort. Although we where both in the "service" industry which innkeeping is part of. We all work for the customer just as much as the waitress in a nice restaurant does to make their experience the best one so that they come back and not only do we make money but so does the establishment..common sense huh?

Now for the Innsitting profession, you got lucky sueellen, we are thinking seriously of becoming Innsitters, not because we don't want to own our own Inn, but because we consider ourselves Innkeepers, cooks, customer service, operator and we LOVE IT! Just because there are owners all over the country and world thart DONT WANT TO BE INNKEEPERS (meaning the job) but want to own an Inn and hire someone to take care of their inn does not mean that a guest is not well taken care of by the Innkeeper (not the owner) because they LOVE THEIR JOB and the owners trust their management to run their business.

My husband and I have lots of experience running an Inn and we are praying that we can find a fit with an Inn for a long assignment. Everyone is right...there arent that many Inns that use Innsitters, but there are many that do and they are invaluable if they truly love their profession as any other profession. I do understand that hiring someone to come and take care of your Inn would take careful consideration and it would be more difficult for an aspiring to get a job if they have no experience. It takes alot of patience and love to do what all of us do daily. 

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There is an Interim Innkeepers Network.

Here is how they describe what an Interim Innkeeper is:

"An Interim Innkeeper is a person or couple who has developed the knowledge, skills and experiences necessary to successfully operate a Bed & Breakfast, Country Inn, Boutique Hotel, or Family Resort during the absence of the owner-operator or resident innkeeper. An Interim Innkeeper keeps abreast of new trends and practices through involvement in industry associations, training programs and seminars."

Sounds good to me!

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of the interim innkeepers i am aware of, some carry their own insurance, liability and workers comp (like a self-employed contractor)  ... others do not.  i believe they all should. it's a cost of doing business.

anyone's services i used at the inn either had to be my employee (and i had to insure them) or they had to show proof of insurance.  this was for the inn's protection ... in the event of an accidental injury, the person hurt would be covered. 

 

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seashanty wrote:

of the interim innkeepers i am aware of, some carry their own insurance, liability and workers comp (like a self-employed contractor)  ... others do not.  i believe they all should. it's a cost of doing business.

anyone's services i used at the inn either had to be my employee (and i had to insure them) or they had to show proof of insurance.  this was for the inn's protection ... in the event of an accidental injury, the person hurt would be covered. 

 

I would strongly suggest that anyone that is considering hiring an innsitter first check with their insurance company. If your insurance company is not on board with you hiring an innsitter, I would not want to see what would happen if something serious happens.

I do NOT trust insurance companies any further than I could toss an elephant. This has nothing to do with the qualifications of the innsitter. THis has to do with the fact that I am SURE that if anything happens while the innsitter is taking care of my inn, if I had not cleared him/her with my insurance company they will use that as a reason to drop me. Insurance companies pay big bonuses to employees who can find a loophole for not servicing claims. 

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eeek! 

dang the internet anyway!!!  i LOVE this forum but we can't talk face to face and words can and do hurt, can and do get taken the wrong way .... and without the face, the voice, the physical exchange, we can hurt one another and be hurt ~~ all without intent.

deep breaths, everyone.  let's just talk ...

how about a group hug? too much?  

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just had a thought ~~ is there a course available specifically for those who want to be interim innkeepers?  including someone from the red cross to give the cpr cert. and heimlich instruction. 

those of you who offer innkeeping seminars ... maybe you already do this. if not, it would be great for those who can't afford to buy a place ... to be certified in some way?

just a thought

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As a former B&B owner, Interim Innkeeper and National Trainer, I am going to try and answer a couple of questions that have been brought up in this lively discussion board.   And, yes, I did hire Interims before I actually met them.  Some were good and some could have been better.  However, my sanity needed a break and we forged ahead.

Yes, there are classes for those who wish to get into the Interim Innkeeping (Inn Sitter) profession and there is a certification process available.  The whole certification process was initially created by PAII and then dropped by them.  It was then taken over and revised by the Interim Innkeepers Network. 

The Interim Innkeepers Network, of which we are founding members, has a list of professional interim innkeeper members who also do training.   In addition, there is a certification process that members can elect to participate in.  So, why don't all members get this certification, for a variety of reasons.  

Some just don't want to bother with certification because they have enough business to handle as it is.  Some are new to the business and one of the requirements for certification is having either owned a B&B or worked at several B&B's (catch 22 problem).  Some don't want to bother with the follow up on staying certified with CPR & Food handling every few years.   Some just don't see the value to certification in the first place.

As to training, we have people with a variety of backgrounds taking our classes.  Most come to us with no experience at all in the B&B industry.   It was one of the reasons we created our class to meet a need.   What we tell them is that even after taking our class, they are still going to have to do some pro-bono work with at least 3 B&B's of different sizes as well as get a food handlers certification and CPR certification.  

Our particular class is a 4 day hands on training onsite at a B&B.  They are exposed to a variety of reservation systems,  learn about guest interaction on the phone and in person, and go over the many different types of situations that arise at a B&B. They get involved with food preparation and breakfast service as well as cleaning.  In addition, we stress that the B&B needs to be run as close to the way the B&B owner operates as is possible.  To that extent, we give them a manual which we suggest they have the owner fill out before hand.  This manual goes over every question (we hope) that the interim may have as to how to run the bed and breakfast they will be working at.   We also stress the importance of having a day or two of actual training at the B&B, going over the manual and learning where everything is located. 

Yes, there are times when an interim innkeeper gets thrown into a situation where there is little training beforehand.  That is when that Interim Innkeeper manual is so important.  Or, if the innkeeper has an up to date Operations Manual that covers every aspect of running the B&B (not just the phone numbers of who to call when the plumbing problem occurs) that would work also. 

Yes, every one of you has your own way of running your show and you want it to be perfect.  For the smaller inns, it probably is just as easy to plan your vacations in your off season and just close.  However, if a special event comes up that you want to attend or an emergency situation arises, it is nice to know about a professional interim innkeeper in the wing just in case.  For larger inns, there is never a good time to close.  

There is nothing wrong with meeting and seeing how an interim innkeeper would work at your inn beforehand.   For someone with little experience they probably would be willing to come out for a meet and greet.   For those of us who are experienced or who travel the country, that might not work out.   If you can not meet your interim before hand, ask for references of other places the interim has worked.  Also, you can ask the interim about how they would handle certain situations and see what their answers are.  More than anything, you will need to go with your gut.

I realize that it is difficult to leave your "baby", but I have learned that one should never say never to any situation.

I hope this helps both sides of the aisle ( Innkeepers and Interim Innkeepers )

Lynda

 

 

 

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Sounds like a business opportunity...I have had people contact me wanting to know what they need to do to become an Inn-sitter - "how do I get certified?".  My sister thinks I should charge $ for my knowledge.  I disagree and tell people my story - all someone is going to teach you is how to cook, clean, do laundry, be nice to people, and learn different reservation systems.  You need to find one B&B owner looking for help and prove to them you can do it - either with weeks of training (if necessary) or  one or two days getting to know their place.  If they have had help before they should have some sort of manual with all the information in it that you need to run their place without having to call and ask frivolous questions.  You need to be a self motivated person.  You need to be flexible (to the point of exhaustion sometimes!) 

I could go on and on - but I know you are all tired of hearing from me.   I'll shut up now!  

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Sounds like a business opportunity...I have had people contact me wanting to know what they need to do to become an Inn-sitter - "how do I get certified?".  My sister thinks I should charge $ for my knowledge.  I disagree and tell people my story - all someone is going to teach you is how to cook, clean, do laundry, be nice to people, and learn different reservation systems.  You need to find one B&B owner looking for help and prove to them you can do it - either with weeks of training (if necessary) or  one or two days getting to know their place.  If they have had help before they should have some sort of manual with all the information in it that you need to run their place without having to call and ask frivolous questions.  You need to be a self motivated person.  You need to be flexible (to the point of exhaustion sometimes!) 

I could go on and on - but I know you are all tired of hearing from me.   I'll shut up now!  

I'm still waiting to hear that you have your license and insurance. I do hope you are not innsitting without insurance. If you are, I would call what you are doing house sitting, not innsitting.

My B&B insurance company would not allow me to hire someone without it.

By the way, the best way to get business for innsitters would be to join PAII and their state association.

RIki

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I am not asking you to shut up but I do see certification a bit differently. I see innsitter certification as being familiar with many different reservation systems, computer literate, able to respond ro a reservation with proper follow-up, with being "up" on dietary requirements, as knowing about dinnerware - as in what will or will not go in a dishwasher, stain removal - what to use and what not to use, it is more than just doing laundry or scrubbing a toilet. I see innsitting as a profession and something that not just anyone can do.

If I am going out of town, I do not have time, with all my other arrangements to train someone on MY reservation system. I can print out how I answer my phone, I can leave a list of what is where, but there is so much that requires professionalism.... I am amazed at the number of people who say, when I answer the phone, my! you sound so professional! Do you know how hard it is to keep from responding - that is because I AM a professional.

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As per usual I feel someone made an innocent comment and everyone took it differently and people got their hackles up and one thing led to another and it devolved.  This forum is getting to be more work than running this Inn.  

People, realize this...as innkeepers we are all held to impossible standards every moment of every day.  I think what would help all of us the most is if folks would just give us an inch of slack.  Why can't we even do that for each other on here?

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Amen!  I'm a people pleaser and I have always wished for peace on earth!  I realize as I re-read this that some of you may take this the wrong way and think I am being sarcastic.  That is what I don't like about e-mails and reading the written word as compared to actually talking to someone.  Everyone reads things differently and takes away a different meaning.   I just want people to get along - be nice, play fair, share!  It's a crazy world we live in and being mean will get you nowhere!  Kill them with kindness and kindness will be returned to you.  Amen!

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i am sorry, littleblue ... but i would use the word condescending to describe suellen's saying that innkeeping is not rocket science.  not the best phrase to use, surely. 

not one i would want to hear when seeking out an interim innkeeper and not one i would use, hoping to be hired. 

suellen222, we are a passionate bunch in here.  as you see. 

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suellen222,

Ummm.... first, I'm thrilled that you and your sister have found a venture you find rewarding and valuable.

The tone and the asumptions you've made in your initial post to support your sales pitch are about as condescending and presumptive towards the intelligence of any veteran inn owner as I've seen here.

I'm in the camp of innkeeper that believes "we" as the owner or innkeeper of a small B&B are such a huge part of the experience for our guests that except for a health emergency or family death, nobody could ever "sit in" for us here.

I'm not sure how it is that hundreds of OUR guests per year can bring a laptop, cellphone, pda, etc. and for a few minutes per day, keep up on their business affairs AND still relate to us just how relaxing and enjoyable of a time they have while in our home, but they do.

While our B&B is only in its fifth year of operation, we already know with about 95% certainty what our busy and slow seasons are and when we could most easily expect to take a break and NOT miss much business.

Maybe for innkeepers who refuse to take vacations only in their slow season or are in it only to make maximium income, your service would be very appealing.

I'm not sure why you would encourage inexperienced, aspiring innkeepers to start competing with you, but I would expect that flooding a fairly small labor market niche with too many inexperienced, untested service providers could eventually work against the positive aspects and reputation of having highly trained, experienced innsitting services available for those that could use them.

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Condescension is a show of disdain and superiority in which the condescending person patronizes, or considers himself superior and "descends" to the level of, the disdained person

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black, TIM.  I saw nothing condescending in suellen's posts, but see it loud and clear in about 75% of your own; how typical that your first post after a five-day suspension is green and nasty.

Suellen IS a professional Innsitter, has sat for Inns all over the country....how she got into it originally doesn't matter in the least.  She was invited to this forum to get the opinions of an Innsitter.  I'm embarassed now to see some the the nasty responses that have been posted.  Sue was simply expressing her thoughts, and there was nothing I saw that was meant to be insulting, and certainly nothing she said insulted me.  How can anyone attack her for encouraging aspiring innkeepers to consider inn-sitting, a profession she loves?  I encourage aspiring innkeepers to become Inn owners every day, because it's a profession I love.

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Maybe you didn't but that doesn't negate anyone else's right to perceive or interpret her comments as we saw fit. I paid her a compliment and in no way was denigrating her own professionalism or skills. I was critiquing the way she phrased her comments and in my opinion not so subtly suggesting that anyone not using an innsitter is a hobbyist, or not very smart about how they were running their inn.

Yes, the physical tasks involved in operating a B&B aren't brain surgery, but its the nuances that count and are in my opinion are every bit as important. I've never stayed in a B&B whose "staff" fully grasped that and have only experienced the complete package of cleanliness, hospitality, and good service when staying in owner occupied B&Bs.

She started the thread and if you'll be kind enough to point me to the thread inviting her to weigh in on an innsitter's value to any of us, I'll go get some background on the original topic.

But point by point I found her comments to be condescending and spoke my mind, which I believe I'm entitled to do regardless of anything else. I know you don't like it when people here respond to people's comments point by point but in this case its somewhat important on both what she wrote and how she phrased it.

As an Inn-sitter I felt a need to speak up on this subject - maybe a little late for some of you, but better late than never! 

So have we all been wandering around in the dark or something on how to manage our vacations, family emergencies, time off, etc.?

Was this initial statement of hers in response to specific questions?

Was her launching the thread to begin with in response to a request from others?

First - A B&B is a very personal business and if I, as a potential guest, call and get an answering machine (and possibly no reply for a day or so) I will go on to the next B&B where someone will talk to me and take my reservation!

With most of us reporting getting anywhere from 50-90% of our reservations online, this statement doesn't seem to jive with the fact or trend in travel that proves we musn't anchor ourselves to our phones at all time.

2nd - A vacation is not really a vacation if you are attached to your phone and computer.

I stand by earlier comment about our guests apparently being able to fully enjoy their vacations while still keeping tabs on their business affairs. The hollywood screenplay writer who just checked out today while having a deadline to deal with, phone calls, emails, etc... related to us that this was the singularly most relaxing three days in his memory.

3rd - If you close down/shut your doors, etc. you are losing all business that may come in while you are gone and if you don't return messages you are losing any future business.

There are innkeepers who don't return phone calls or emails even while in residence at their B&B, and there are those of us who while on vacation or off premise are very good about replying to inquiries or calls.

An Inn-sitter will be there to answer the phone, take care of any last minute guests while also taking care of guests who booked in advance.  I have noticed last minute bookings are way up this year. 

It isn't an 100% certainty that all B&Bs get lots of last minute bookings, walk in traffic or have been even with this year's trend.

I guess it depends on if you are trying to run a business or if owning a B&B is just a hobby for you.  

This is the one that stuck in my craw. We take our business very seriously. This is our life's blood, sweat and tears and a way more than full time venture for us. Probably too seriously for our own good.

All you Aspiring Innkeepers out there - I highly recommend getting into the Inn-sitting business.  It will give you a good taste of what running a B&B is like. 

Easy to say, harder to do and to do well.

All the fun without all the responsibilities of owning! 

Yes, I'm sure if all I had to worry about was the physical tasks of temporarily filling in for the rube who has his or her life's savings invested in starting, running and perpetuating a B&B business it would be kind of fun. This statement struck me as awfully unappreciative of the effort, financial investment and dedication it took for all of us who own our places to make it happen. Conidering anyone reading this would potentially be a client of suellen222's, it just felt funny. Just being honest.

Kinda like being a Grandparent, you spoil the kids and then you get to go home. 

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Tim this is not the kind of restraint I had hoped you would return with.  You are responding point by point to Little Blue about things Sueellen said after Suellen has already clarified that she did not intend to be condescending to anyone.  She is new to the forum and needs a little forgiveness, not a disection of all the reasons you should be offended.

This isn't working out.  Good day, good luck, and good bye.

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Oh Little Blue...I feel your pain.  Please, please ignore and do not rise to the bait...he likes it too much.  Just don't give him the satisfaction.  If it makes you feel better to vent just email me your comments!

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LB,

Thank you so much for standing up for me, I have been reading all the responses and get more upset with each one, and was really thinking I crossed some sort of line.  I was wondering if I could quietly disappear from this forum.  I had NO intention of pissing anyone off.  I have been Inn-sitting for 5 years and I know that I was very lucky in getting my 1st job, but I believe I got it because I "clicked" with the owner (as a guest! - she had just opened her doors and didn't know what to do when she took a vacation)  I sold myself, even tho up to that point I had only ever cleaned every Sunday at a B&B.  She took a chance on me and I took a chance on myself!  I was scared and nervous, etc.  But I felt I had found my passion and "what I wanted to be when I grew up"  I was 45 at the time!  Up 'til then I had stayed home with my 2 girls and occassionally (sp?) took in day care children.
  I don't look upon Inn-sitting as competitive - I feel it should be just like B&B's in the same area - you should be helping each other and referring customers.  I would love to have someone else to call when I can't take a job.

I also feel that all B&B's are different and unique - as are the owners.  It is a very personal business and you should spend time with the person you are thinking of hiring.  I am going into your home, your business and trying to be you - if our personalities clash then it won't work for either of us.  I have not taken jobs solely on the fact that I realized that the owner and I were not compatible.  If I don't think I can run the place the same way you do it will surely be a disaster - I don't care to put myself or your business in that situation.

Again, I apologize to anyone whom I have insulted - it was not my intention.  I will keep doing what I am doing because I love it - I wanted to get the word out there that you can make a career out of something that you love.  Try b4 you buy - I decided to put my buying dreams on the backburner cos I am having too much fun!

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I'm sorry that this discussion turned that corner and became so personal.  Sue, you found yourself in an amazing situation where the first person you met was a brand new innkeeper and she needed help. You provided her help and it worked out great for both of you.  Don't you agree that was a unique situation and the best for everyone involved is training? That really is the essence of this discussion. Issues become hot topics around here fast sometimes. Hang in there with us.  

 

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Suellen, I have no problem with you encouraging the innsitting profession - it truly IS a way to see the Country while doing what you dream of doing. Just as education is stressed in every other profession, that is what is being stressed. Opening a B & B with no experience is risking your own money and learning on the job is your risk. That is all that is being expressed - get the training and then be an innsitter who is representing another innkeeper's business and reputaion, both of which can be damaged badly with one review as been stated on this Forum. Repeatedly! 

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Little Blue wrote:

How can anyone attack her for encouraging aspiring innkeepers to consider inn-sitting, a profession she loves?  I encourage aspiring innkeepers to become Inn owners every day, because it's a profession I love.

Encouraging aspiring innkeepers to consider inn-sitting is not a problem. The problem arises when you encourage them to do it without any experience.

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Blue, I am sorry if you read the responses on this thread as being nasty. I have read the all - including Toad's - and do not consider them as nasty. No one has said an Aspiring should not go into innsitting, however we have said WE would not consider hiring someone who had no innkeeper experience. Suggestions have been offered on many threads as to how to get that experience. 

I do not believe there has been anyone looking down their nose at anyone until it was implied that anyone with half a brain could be an innkeeper. Although that may be true to be an innkeeper - it is not true of a SUCCESSFUL innkeeper - and this Forum strives to help each other be successful.

I was cooking at age 10. That does not mean I could cook a B & B breakfast that would be appealing to the eyes as well as the stomach. I did raise kids - but that also does not say I did it successfully nor does it mean changing diapers and wiping up puke and cleaning bathrooms gave me what it would take to clean to an acceptable level for paying guests and separating warring kids does not prepare to deal with PITAs. I could knock kids heads together but you cannot do that with guests. Sorry - that analogy was WAY off. And as Ginocat pointed out, many who are successful never dealt with 2-legged animals.

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"Blue, I am sorry if you read the responses on this thread as being nasty.  I have read the all - including Toad's - and do not consider them as nasty."

Maybe the difference is I read them from Sue's perspective and I knew I would feel hurt and embarassed if I was her.  More of us should read things that we post from that viewpoint. 

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suellen222, are you saying that someone hired you to innsit before you had any experience working at an inn?

if so, you were very fortunate!

i've been looking at inn sitting and the first questions i am asked are 'how many years of innkeeping experience do you have?' and 'what reservation systems are you familiar with?', etc.   an aspiring innkeeper would not likely be able to answer those questions in a way that would get them an interview, let alone 'a chance'. 

a better route for an aspiring who cannot afford to purchase an inn/b&b, in my opinion, would be to seek out a position as an assistant innkeeper or similar job in the hospitality industry.  after that, perhaps as an interim.

you do not say how long you inn-sat at the place where you earned over $1600 and $2500 for the innkeepers.  the interims i know (and i only know 2 innsitters - a couple and a single person) are paid approximately $100 to $200 per day, in addition to room and board, depending on whether or not they are expected to do the housekeeping and if it is one person or a couple. 

when i ran a b&b myself, my overhead was so high that i often paid the housekeeper more than i earned myself. i hired an innsitter twice --- when i attended an out of state wedding and an out of state graduation.  i paid the innsitter more than i would have earned in that time also. sad but true. 

but i wanted the place to be open and it was the only way i could attend these important events.  both times, i let all guests know that i would not be there.  i explained why and asked for their 'critique' of my interims and they seemed to enjoy this ... giving me long, report card style notes.   

i am glad you are happy with your experiences and that you continue to be hired to innsit.  but i do not believe it is such an easy thing to be taken on as you were. 

also, the economic reality many innkeepers face, especially those who own old buildings that require ongoing repairs (think money pit without the humor), in addition to a mortgage, can be staggering. 

large, established businesses with additional staff are the ones i am finding are looking for interim innkeeping help.  and they want someone with a lot of experience. 

i wish you well.

 

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I guess it depends on if you are trying to run a business or if owning a B&B is just a hobby for you.  

No, it depends on what is economically sensible. If I go away for 2 weeks and hire an innsitter, I have to pay for every day that innsitter is here BUT will probably only have guests on the weekend - and since I am in Podunk, depending on the season, even that is a maybe. IF I have guests to equal the cost of the innsitter, I still lose due to overhead costs. I am not trying to run a business, I am running a business. Perhaps if I were in a destination area - I have had to tell people we are a tourist destination - it would be different. I have also had comments about the disappointment of not getting to meet ME - even though I left everything ready for breakfast for DH to "open zip-loc and put in bowl" put in oven for xx min. etc - I was not nere.

Hiring an innsitter depends on a lot of factors. I wish I had enough demand to warrant an innsitter - I think. I would probably - unless it was something like my daughter's wedding in 2007 or DH's HS reunion (and I DID have reservations for that weekend so hired a friend to innsit) for me it is best to be booked.

BTW, that particular Labor Day weekend, I had 8 room nights booked when we found out about the reunion. This friend was considering foing B & B. I worked out for both of us. I had coverage for guests who sould NOT have been able to find othr rooms and she found out she did NOT want to do B & B.

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Since I charge depending on room occupancy...you could afford me!  I don't charge unless rooms are rented when I am there.  That way you are only paying me for the work I do.  Everyone is happy!

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suellen222 wrote:

I guess it depends on if you are trying to run a business or if owning a B&B is just a hobby for you.  

You are entitled to have you own opinion...and I have mine!   I have taken vacations and closed and have taken vacations and hired an innsitter.  I wll say there are good and bad points with both and would really not depend on if it is a 'business or hobby' B&B.  What it really boils down to is what experience YOU want for ALL your guests. 

When I hired an innsitter I had several emails when I returned.  Some that were left were bragging up and down on the great treatment they had with our sitter while others were disapointed in the fact that WE were not here stating that half the B&B experience is getting to meet and talk with the innkeeper and they had truely wanted to meet US.  The second time we hired an innsitter for vacation we make it a point to tell our potential guests that we would be gone during their stay....some did not book!!  Guess there is really no right or wrong way to do things...it is an individual preference but it has NOTHING to do with whether it is a business or hobby.   

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suellen222 wrote:

All you Aspiring Innkeepers out there - I highly recommend getting into the Inn-sitting business.  It will give you a good taste of what running a B&B is like.  All the fun without all the responsibilities of owning!  Kinda like being a Grandparent, you spoil the kids and then you get to go home. 

I would never hire an innsitter who did not previously own an inn or had extensive experience working in one.

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Catch 22 - how is someone supposed to have extensive experience working in one if no one ever gives them a chance?  I am so glad someone gave me a chance 5 years ago - neither of us has ever regretted it and I go back 2-3 times a year.  Put your faith in someone and you might be pleasantly surprised.

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suellen222 wrote:

Catch 22 - how is someone supposed to have extensive experience working in one if no one ever gives them a chance?  I am so glad someone gave me a chance 5 years ago - neither of us has ever regretted it and I go back 2-3 times a year.  Put your faith in someone and you might be pleasantly surprised.

You offer to help at a local B&B at no cost to get the experience. You go and work at a hotel to at least get some experience in the general industry. You do not expect one of us to trust our whole business to you just because you "need experience".

If you are really serious, there are inns out there where you can pay to get the training and experience of running an inn. If you want to be an innsitter, you have to put out some money or some time working for free for training, just like any other profession.

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No, it's not a Catch 22. You get experience working in an inn, NOT learning on the job as a novice. Even when I've hired a local person to help at my inn who has no B&B experience, it takes me weeks of training before I would ever leave them alone.

I'm sorry, but in these days of PITAs and bad TA reviews I would never hire someone to innsit without experience.

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Would 18 years experience of raising children "qualify" someone in your book?  Inn-keeping is not rocket science - can you cook, clean, do laundry, make beds, be nice to people?  The hardest part of Inn-sitting is learning the different reservation systerms.  I usually like a day with the owner b4 actually taking over and thought I made that clear, but once when I showed up for a job the owner was there for an hour and then left me on my own!  I'm not sure what takes weeks - I would've been happy for a day of training!

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Now that you've insulted all the innkeepers on this board with your comment about 'rocket science' ..... some of the best innkeepers in this industry have NEVER had children!

I have used innsitters for years. They have all  owned and operated a bed and breakfast prior to becoming innsitters. There are other innsitters in my world who have learned their trade by being an assistant innsitter but that does not necessariy qualify them to run a bed and breakfast.

Do you think it is easy to just walk into someone else's house and work in their kitchen? Can you prepare breakfasts exactly as the Innkeeper would like you to? Are you proficient with a computer and the various systems an Inn might use for books, bookings and confirmations?

You are lucky someone let you just take over. All of my inkeepers came to stay with me first BEFORE I considered hiring them. I looked at references and talked to other innkeepers who had used them.

The innkeepers I've had generally bring some of their own kitchen equipment with them. They sleep in MY bedroom and all of them bring their own linens because they realize that sleeping in an innkeepers room can be invasive. They have to look after my cat in the manner that I like him to be looked after and that includes giving him medication.

They have to know what to do if there is an emergency in the house.

When I have innsitters they have 4 sets of instructions:-

1. for the house

2. details of how the BB/Inn is run

3. computer and bookings

4. the cat.

In otherwords they pretty much have to come in an live and work like I do.

An attitude that claims running a bb is not rocket science does not bode well in my opinion. It takes a great deal of skill to handle so many different personalities and so many different jobs it takes to run a successful business. This is why so many bb's fail - innkeepers don't understand how all-consuming this job can be.

For those of us who have lasted, and I'm in my 18th year, we will not leave the running of our business to someone who is not extremely proficient and extremely experienced with this wonderful business.

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Suellen, I am not being snarky in any way when I say this, but raising 6 kids was not in any way a preperation for running an inn other than giving me experience in biting my tongue because I was "second mother" since the first wife died.

What did do it was over 10 years of working part-time as a relief night auditor which means I was manager on duty with all it implies, reservations, front desk (including answering calls and putting them through to guest rooms), balance the restaurant, banquet, and bar receipts (many a night they could not get it to blance and it was my job to find out why), post all charges, and do the reports - all in 8 hours.

There were 2 times friends innsat. BOTH very early in our innkeeping career. The first one had moved away between the time of agreement and the time of sitting and I had to just trust it would work out because SHE told me at the last minute she would not be able to come even a day before I HAD to leave. I guess it worked out - but NONE of those guests ever returned and yes, I DID call them to tell them due to circumstances beyond my control a raw rookie would be here - their greatest fear was that the room would disappear. (I paid the agreed fee and then sent a second check of the same amount after I returned home as a "tip".)  The second time, was friends who came in for a one night w/dinner and served a dinner that was ready to serve (put in oven and bake) and breakfast was the same with breakfast. I left a detailed list with where everything was located. And they did this out of friendship refusing to be paid.

The turmoil I went through convinced me (after checking rates of a "real" innsitter) it is best for me, if I know in advance and can block the rooms IS to block the rooms. Today, with the reputation I have built for my inn, I would never leave my reputation to anyone less than a professional with experience - whatever it cost.

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suellen222 wrote:

Would 18 years experience of raising children "qualify" someone in your book?  Inn-keeping is not rocket science - can you cook, clean, do laundry, make beds, be nice to people?  The hardest part of Inn-sitting is learning the different reservation systerms.  I usually like a day with the owner b4 actually taking over and thought I made that clear, but once when I showed up for a job the owner was there for an hour and then left me on my own!  I'm not sure what takes weeks - I would've been happy for a day of training!

No. Most people have experience raising children but don't know the first thing about innkeeping. And I know a lot of people who are wonderful cooks but would not know how to present my kind of breakfast.

If you think the hardest thing about innkeeping is the reservations systems, I assume you can handle plumbing problems, electrical problems, and all the other things that can go wrong with running an inn.

I would never leave my inn in the hands of someone after one day of trainnig.

My innsitters have huge innkeeping and spa work experience, and are baby sitting our inn for several afternoons and are going to spend a night with us and turn a room before we are going to leave them alone running the inn.

For goodness sakes, they have to know where everything is in the kitchen, understand our quality of breakfast served, know where to turn off the water in case of plumbing problems, know who to call for what emergencies, etc. They have to know where to direct the guests to the farmer's market, the wineries, local historical sites, etc. I'm not leaving them to the mercy of whatever might come in the door without creating a book for them to go to for info.

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Would 18 years experience of raising children "qualify" someone in your book?

NO

The hardest part of Inn-sitting is learning the different reservation systems.

If an owner were to hire someone with no experience, how would they possibly run the inn using some complicated systems?

I usually like a day with the owner b4 actually taking over

And that's what it should take with an experienced innsitter.

Suellen, I'm not putting down your abilities and your skills which you have now. I think it's irresponsible to encourage aspiring innkeepers to put themselves out there to innsit if they have no experience. It's doing other innsitters a disservice by minimizing the skills it takes to become a professional innsitter.

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I agree with BD. I would never hire someone who had no experience as an innkeeper to be an innsitter. To me that is just common sense. Unless it was someone I knew personally and had trained myself to do the job.

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