I have read the extensive threads here on the subject of online reviews. I know on an intellectual level that any bozo can sign up for a TA account and write whatever they please about any property on the planet. I also know that there are ways to professionally deal with a bad review, so this thread is not looking for that advice.
I'm just wondering how you all deal with the very personal hurt you feel when someone criticizes your home and your heart & soul efforts to be hospitable?
I just read a recent review of our Inn and on a professional level I almost had to laugh, because the tone is so whiney and nit-picky, and if you read this person's other reviews it is clear that nothing impresses him or makes him happy. For us specifically he complains about breakfast (he enjoyed our fully plated breakfast but wished he had been asked if he'd rather have something else, and wished that we'd had self-serve breads and cereals to go along with the hot served plate...umm...that's a restaurant buffet you're looking for, and you're not likely to get it in ANY b&b). He says there were no window coverings in the room, which is simply not true (we have both blinds and curtains). At the end he mentions the positives and does state that he'd recommend us to a friend, so with that I don't think it really justifies a management response.
So why has this been dragging me down all day? What's the best way to just get over it?
I'm just wondering how you all deal with the very personal hurt you feel when someone criticizes your home and your heart & soul efforts to be hospitable?
I just read a recent review of our Inn and on a professional level I almost had to laugh, because the tone is so whiney and nit-picky, and if you read this person's other reviews it is clear that nothing impresses him or makes him happy. For us specifically he complains about breakfast (he enjoyed our fully plated breakfast but wished he had been asked if he'd rather have something else, and wished that we'd had self-serve breads and cereals to go along with the hot served plate...umm...that's a restaurant buffet you're looking for, and you're not likely to get it in ANY b&b). He says there were no window coverings in the room, which is simply not true (we have both blinds and curtains). At the end he mentions the positives and does state that he'd recommend us to a friend, so with that I don't think it really justifies a management response.
So why has this been dragging me down all day? What's the best way to just get over it?