The Tipsy Butler
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Sweetheart. $%*! happens.
You are awesome, you've gone through a lot recently and are doing an absolutely remarkable job.
Things WILL go wrong. Once you accept that life becomes much much much easier. It's how you handle it that counts. The tears were simply a reflection of how totally overwhelmed you are in every sense of the word. Imagine what it would be like without this forum?
I find strings of really, REALLY bad words, as many as I can think of, repeated as often as necessary, helps.
The only true room ready / available problem I've had so far (and I KNOW and accept that it won't be the worst or the last) was ironically with another member of this forum. I have never wanted to ready for someone more and I've never been less prepared. We had an, ummm, plumbing / drainage emergency at our store and I want into overdrive making sure everything was OK there.
My excuse ..... "as fellow innkeeper's I knew you'd understand".
The reality .... It was potentially an enormous problem and I let it supercede everything else that needed to happen that day.
I really beat myself up over it and I NOW have a new mantra - accept my mistakes - they're going to happen ....hence, I STILL look like Krusty The Klown.
You are awesome, you've gone through a lot recently and are doing an absolutely remarkable job.
Things WILL go wrong. Once you accept that life becomes much much much easier. It's how you handle it that counts. The tears were simply a reflection of how totally overwhelmed you are in every sense of the word. Imagine what it would be like without this forum?
I find strings of really, REALLY bad words, as many as I can think of, repeated as often as necessary, helps.
The only true room ready / available problem I've had so far (and I KNOW and accept that it won't be the worst or the last) was ironically with another member of this forum. I have never wanted to ready for someone more and I've never been less prepared. We had an, ummm, plumbing / drainage emergency at our store and I want into overdrive making sure everything was OK there.
My excuse ..... "as fellow innkeeper's I knew you'd understand".
The reality .... It was potentially an enormous problem and I let it supercede everything else that needed to happen that day.
I really beat myself up over it and I NOW have a new mantra - accept my mistakes - they're going to happen ....hence, I STILL look like Krusty The Klown.