i think she/he/they took the rubber duck because they assumed it was a one time thing and theirs to take. i put little rubber ducks in the rooms with tubs, then even on a shower shelf because they looked so cute, and folks often took them. like soap. it didn't bother me, as if they bathed with one, i just couldn't figure how to disinfect the thing for the next person. so i thought of it as not a problem
tea, in room ... i suppose they might think ... 'it all comes with the room, it's mine to use or take home.' if i were you, i wouldn't put too many in a room ... just what i felt like someone would reasonably drink during their stay. and if they drank it or took it, no problem
the other two things ... glasses? could this have been a mistake? packing them up thinking they were their own eye glasses?
and the wine stopper ... no ...
i think i'd drop them an email note. hope you enjoyed your stay ... do you recall where you might have moved the wine stopper and reading glasses to? i've not been able to find them, perhaps you thought the glasses were yours' something like that.
you might get them back in the mail. it's worth a try.
i handmade afghan went home with someone but came back in the mail. she said she mistakenly packed it. odd ... because how and why would you mistakenly pack something like that? but, hey, i was glad to get it back.
my dear, late mom was a packer upper. sugar packets mostly. but she'd bring zip lock bags to restaurants and pack up butter, fruit and rolls ... a few jelly packets ... you name it. she'd say ... 'i paid for it, it's part of the meal.' and, do you know, when i'm out at a restaurant, i have to fight the impulse to put a few sugars in my bag. my kids laugh and laugh at me ...
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