Madeleine
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We have a guest who's been here 3-4 times now. The last 2 times (in less than 2 months) with a new lady friend each time.
How do you handle this?
It's awkward in more than one way because the rest of his family and friends of his family also come here. And he's been seen here by friends of his family with different 'dates'. Makes me feel trashy, if you know what I mean. Kind of guilt by association. Mostly beause I don't know if he's lving with any of the other women who have been here and using this as his 'love nest'.
Basically, I'm not saying anything to anyone about anything but it's obvious to these women he's been here before because we know him. Not that any of them have asked if he's been here with someone else.
This is not the first instance of this in the past couple of months, either. We've also had a guest we know personally show up with a GF and then have had his wife call looking for him.
How do you handle this?
It's awkward in more than one way because the rest of his family and friends of his family also come here. And he's been seen here by friends of his family with different 'dates'. Makes me feel trashy, if you know what I mean. Kind of guilt by association. Mostly beause I don't know if he's lving with any of the other women who have been here and using this as his 'love nest'.
Basically, I'm not saying anything to anyone about anything but it's obvious to these women he's been here before because we know him. Not that any of them have asked if he's been here with someone else.
This is not the first instance of this in the past couple of months, either. We've also had a guest we know personally show up with a GF and then have had his wife call looking for him.