no my comment was connected to Eric saying he would share rooms in youth hostels etc when he was young - Me I was Waaaay to fussy for that!see that's never been me (a symptom of a BB child?) wouldn't put up with crappy stays and knew what I could get for my money!She'll do it until the point of where she will run into the problems, or age will change how she feels about things and then she will never do it again and never bat an eyelash about it.Funny how we are in the people biz and this is how we think.You know the awful truth? I would absolutely HATE to stay in a room at someone's home. I hate staying with friends or family too. Yes, I said it. I do. I want to relax.The AirBnB was in Tacoma WA..
Things that means I can't relax? Tippytoeing because I don't know what's intended for me. Towels that don't match. Worrying about them coming into the room. Worrying that I may upset them. Worrying that they don't keep a clean home, that the towels haven't really been washed. That they don't know how to prepare food for breakfast. That they may be angry because I used too much soap, shampoo or I came in too early or left too late. That the bed won't be firm enough, that it won't be too firm, etc. etc. etc.
And then there is the other side of it.. the apartment. Then I have another set of worries, like will it be as it was supposed to. Why the heck would I want a kitchen? So I can cook? So much for really getting a taste of the town. And does that mean I have to clean up after myself? Where is everything. Who's used those dishes before me? Will the knife be dull?
I'm on vacation. Someone make my breakfast, make my bed, let me relax and stop worrying! Oh and that coffee you served me today? It's brown water.... do you have anything stronger? (Yes, at hotels we use the two packets to make one cup and we still think it's weak!)
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But you are spot on.
I would feel the same way. What's for me to use? What shouldn't I touch? What if I break something? What if something is already broken, will they blame me? What if they don't mention the 3 cats or the 130 lb dog? What if there's no lock on the door? Am I going to be the next viral video on YouTube? 'Old lady in my shower.'
I don't want to share my relaxation space with strangers. I want to relax. I get this way when I realize the B&B has no guest common space and I'm sharing with the innkeepers. Not comfortable.
.her mentality was "we only need a place to sleep" and yet, that was not the case here.Madeleine said:Funny how we are in the people biz and this is how we think.
But you are spot on.
I would feel the same way. What's for me to use? What shouldn't I touch? What if I break something? What if something is already broken, will they blame me? What if they don't mention the 3 cats or the 130 lb dog? What if there's no lock on the door? Am I going to be the next viral video on YouTube? 'Old lady in my shower.'
I don't want to share my relaxation space with strangers. I want to relax. I get this way when I realize the B&B has no guest common space and I'm sharing with the innkeepers. Not comfortable.
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When I was in my 20s, I stayed in youth hostels, shared room, didn't care about the bed, bunkbed... sure! Offer me that today and I'll look at you like you are clearly nucking futs.
Reminds me of the opaque hotel reservation sites and the bid for a hotel sites. At one time these were offering something exciting and interesting and sometimes you got something great. And then the troubled hotels discovered them. Now they could anonymously sell you their worst room in the house, the hotel in the odd location that no one wants to stay there. The hotel room right under the night club. The place next to the needle exchange. The hotel that you wouldn't even send your mother-in-law to stay in, never mind your ex's mother-in-law.
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.She didn't have a crappy stay. Not sure if you were replying to me or another, but she enjoyed the $55 room. That is the point, she thinks we B&B's will be obsolete. Made me see red! haha[email protected] said:see that's never been me (a symptom of a BB child?) wouldn't put up with crappy stays and knew what I could get for my money!
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Oh right.[email protected] said:no my comment was connected to Eric saying he would share rooms in youth hostels etc when he was young - Me I was Waaaay to fussy for that!
Yeahhhh we all did some things we wonder how we did or why we did when we were young... haha