The other one is the tour promoter who wants to be able to send his bus tour to stay with you but needs to verify that his customers would like their stay by first staying himself, for 3 nights, with family.
When I explained I could not do this as we have no parking for buses nor space to host buses and he should contact a hotel, he replied right back and asked me to introduce him to the managers of the hotels I mentioned. Could I call them and give them his name and mention how I couldn't host him but I recommended him to them? Uh, no.
I guess pushy works in some places.