Three things...
Stop not asking! If you think that they really enjoyed their stay, ask and send them a thank you email with the link. (If you question if they enjoyed their stay and it isn't enthusiastic.... don't remind them and don't email them.)
If you do like that they use that word and that is your desired clientele, keep things as they are and embrace it.
If you don't like that they use that word, time to add those modern touches that make people think that it's up to date. Sometimes it's a matter of simply decluttering, because things look more modern when they are simple (simple lines, simple patterns). Two things that are very dated today... floral patterns and rocking chairs. Oh and nothing is more dated at a CRT tube TV..
These last folks stayed in the newly done rooms. Floral wallpaper gone. Unfortunately, I will not put solid comforters on the beds as we all know it takes one dirty suitcase to ruin everything. So, yeah, florals and stripes on the beds. Rockers on the porch because, hey, that's where they go. Old TV's gone.
If I had a laundry service everything would be white. Comforters, sheets, everything. (Then again, a friend has a laundry service and half the time she can't put the table linens out because they got none of the stains out.)
So, yeah, I'm thinking of embracing what seems to be my motif even tho it's not what I planned. But, I'm not going to the dark side and cluttering everything up. It all just looks like what I like. A big old house filled with books and floral quilts.
We have been redoing things a little at a time because we have gotten slammed for being 'dated'. I guess I don't see it anymore. But I know it's there. I wanted to redo the whole house the day we moved in (so I used to see it!) but repeats thanked me time and again for not making it all 'new' and 'faddish'.
However, they're gone so the new stuff is coming in.
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