Innkeeper To Go
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Yes, that was part of her email, 'You should have signs everywhere you don't want guests to go!'I can tell you from personal experience that it's easier from a "front desk" perspective to handle some situations...like having to apologize to a guest, give a discount for some perceived slight, ask guests to quiet down, kids to behave, etc. Tell them it is an insurance issue/fire marshall issue to have guests in the basement, and that you were simply shocked to see them coming up from down there. Then, ASK HER if she thinks you should put a sign on the basement door..
OK, obviously she doesn't realize what this would look like if there were 'NO!' signs on all the verboten doors in the house. We do allow the guests a little common sense and I do mention that the doors with the names on them are guest rooms.
Would there be a corollary that doors without names are not guest areas? I guess this winter I put locks on those doors rather than signage.
.I would. Easy enough to key them all alike for your convenience, and that would put the kabash on wandering around. AND by the way....so people look around, they open a door and can see it's the basement. Why in the hell would they go down there?Morticia said:I guess this winter I put locks on those doors rather than signage.
.Because they are teenagers.Little Blue said:so people look around, they open a door and can see it's the basement. Why in the hell would they go down there?
And whose job is it to supervise them during stays at a B&B? Certainly not the innkeeper!
.So then it's also embarrassment on the part of the parents that they couldn't leave the kids alone for an hour while they went out? All around, a bad situation.Innkeeper To Go said:Because they are teenagers.Little Blue said:so people look around, they open a door and can see it's the basement. Why in the hell would they go down there?
And whose job is it to supervise them during stays at a B&B? Certainly not the innkeeper!
I've had kids follow me around asking a million questions and that's fine. I've also had parents want 2 minutes alone on a long vacation and push the kid out the door of the room telling them to go play in traffic and that's mostly been fine as long as the parents don't leave the premises. (Seriously, if the kid will sit still and listen to me or even follow me around but stay out of mischief, I'm ok with mom & dad having a few (FEW) minutes to themselves. A glass of juice and a bowl of cereal few minutes is what I mean!)
But apparently I really irked this family by not 'minding my own business.' Har har.
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I think you've nailed it. Folks who are embarrassed by their own shortcomings tend to overreact. Sounds like the kids did that when they went running to mommy. And sounds like the mom did that when she blamed you for the bad behavior of her kids.Morticia said:So then it's also embarrassment on the part of the parents that they couldn't leave the kids alone for an hour while they went out? All around, a bad situation.
There are a million different ways that each of us might have handled that situation. None of them may have changed that dynamic.
The responsibility for those kids is not yours. The safety and well-being of your guests is. You had not only the right but the responsibility to say something to those kids. Shame on that mom for making you have an ounce of worry for that.