Basically, I ran the business but if I had a busy schedule (I also am involved in a lot of community work), I would ask my dh to do the evening check-ins when he got home from work so that I could at least put my feet up for awhile.
Imvho, if you are both full-time owner/innkeepers you have to work out some kind of system or job descriptions where the workload is shared fairly evenly or one business partner can get resentful of doing more in the business. You need to play to your strengths to an extent, but there is a lot of physical work that needs to be shared (or hired out) or you can just get plain exhausted. For example, to me it wouldn't be fair to me if one partner is doing all the housework and the other one is entering data.
Better to handle this right away than wait for resentment to build up. And as much as we might love our guests, sometimes we get tired of telling "our story" and appreciate the other half taking a turn.
I think you're very wise to try and figure this out!
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