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Guests are on the way to a funeral from Philidelphia going to Belpre, OH (across the river from Parkersburg) which is 2 hours from me. Since they had to wait until he got home from work to leave - they get here about 1am. They have a 7:30 breakfast.My turn to rant. What else Dip**** has a "show" today (he is actually selling more of his "toys" I hope) and he wants to be there by 8am. I get a call for a room last night and take it! HE comes in the kitchen this morning to make his breakfast, load the car, etc as I knew he would right when I am in the middle of fixing breakfast. I took time out to fix him a lunch (even made bread for him last night) and he decides to mop up water just as I am trying to get the entree ready for the oven so I almost trip over themop TWICE as he moves it as I try to gt over it and then HE is ticked at ME.
Just as it is with guests, it was all about HIM! He was ticked with me for taking the room. See, I can take the guests in stride, but after over 30 years of mostly 24/7 DH is the one that sends me on my rants. It is good to be able to vent so I do not have to call on the 2 ladies to help clean up the mess they did not see.This is as close to a primal scream as I can get!.He's gone now, right?gillumhouse said:My turn to rant. What else Dip**** has a "show" today (he is actually selling more of his "toys" I hope) and he wants to be there by 8am. I get a call for a room last night and take it! HE comes in the kitchen this morning to make his breakfast, load the car, etc as I knew he would right when I am in the middle of fixing breakfast. I took time out to fix him a lunch (even made bread for him last night) and he decides to mop up water just as I am trying to get the entree ready for the oven so I almost trip over themop TWICE as he moves it as I try to gt over it and then HE is ticked at ME.
Just as it is with guests, it was all about HIM! He was ticked with me for taking the room. See, I can take the guests in stride, but after over 30 years of mostly 24/7 DH is the one that sends me on my rants. It is good to be able to vent so I do not have to call on the 2 ladies to help clean up the mess they did not see.This is as close to a primal scream as I can get!
Deep breath?
Double butter tonight?
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Kk.
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I knew he expected me to cary his toys out to the car and load it this morning so I pre-did as much as possible - all dry ingredients in bowls for cornbread and for the pumpkin choc chip muffins. Entree and cornbread has to be in the oven by 7. I even made him a lunch! He chose to enter the kitchen at 6:40 - BAD timing. And then HE is angry with me for being upset. I do not go into his studio and muck around - but ...... This is a one butt kitchen as you kow having been here.
BUT - the excercise biek is now gone and I am making more room for me in the kitchen and he is filling it up as fast as I empty.
Yes, he is gone until at least 5. I got the laundry done, dishes almost done (even did a silver polish morning). As soon as the "fluff" in the dryer finishes I will go finish flipping that room. One room tonight. Even beat the mailman to get a b'day card in the mail for a certain prayer shawl person.
Thanks for listening. One would think that after all thse years it would roll off. Most stuff does - but when I am trying to run MY business..... Thank goodness he is a "good one"!