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PITA
Actually in looking at the topics, I do think there is something missing .... a topic that deals with "Guest Relations" of which PITA's would certainly be a popular topic. HmmmmDarn it!.
Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
I was told about this site and somehow managed to read a majority of topics that were very compelling to keep following but I ended up so stressed by the tension! I am relieved to read some lighter, but informative ones.
OH! Never mind! I understand now! It just came to me! How silly of me!
Oh well, rather than delete this I will just let it serve as a safe introduction. I need to remain anonymous for the sake of our current jobs; different lines of work, but I am amazed at how things get around!
Thanks!.
Glad you figured it out, but just in case you run into other terms that are new to you, we have an ever expanding Innspiring Glossary.innlover said:Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
This sounded like help was being asked for but I'm not sure I see the question in it. There is an interesting set of interviews of new innkeepers that was recently in the news that you may find interesting. I'm not sure what the author's experience is, but the young innkeepers had interesting things to say.innlover said:Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
I was told about this site and somehow managed to read a majority of topics that were very compelling to keep following but I ended up so stressed by the tension! I am relieved to read some lighter, but informative ones.
OH! Never mind! I understand now! It just came to me! How silly of me!
Oh well, rather than delete this I will just let it serve as a safe introduction. I need to remain anonymous for the sake of our current jobs; different lines of work, but I am amazed at how things get around!
Thanks!.
welcome. you have to know that this is a safe place, sometimes the only place, for innkeepers to vent. you certainly can't blow off steam around, in earshot of, or to guests ... so this is where many of us come to do just that. to commiserate and be told 'i understand'.Innlover said:I was told about this site and somehow managed to read a majority of topics that were very compelling to keep following but I ended up so stressed by the tension! I am relieved to read some lighter, but informative ones.
Thanks!
Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
I was told about this site and somehow managed to read a majority of topics that were very compelling to keep following but I ended up so stressed by the tension! I am relieved to read some lighter, but informative ones.
OH! Never mind! I understand now! It just came to me! How silly of me!
Oh well, rather than delete this I will just let it serve as a safe introduction. I need to remain anonymous for the sake of our current jobs; different lines of work, but I am amazed at how things get around!
Thanks!.
I use the terms interchangeably while posting, but mostly because "inn" is a lot easier to type then "B&B" and because when speaking generally about innkeeping the terms are interchangeable. (I'm an innkeeper, not a B&Bkeeper.)Innlover said:thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Hi Swirt,Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
I was told about this site and somehow managed to read a majority of topics that were very compelling to keep following but I ended up so stressed by the tension! I am relieved to read some lighter, but informative ones.
OH! Never mind! I understand now! It just came to me! How silly of me!
Oh well, rather than delete this I will just let it serve as a safe introduction. I need to remain anonymous for the sake of our current jobs; different lines of work, but I am amazed at how things get around!
Thanks!.Glad you figured it out, but just in case you run into other terms that are new to you, we have an ever expanding Innspiring Glossary.innlover said:Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
This sounded like help was being asked for but I'm not sure I see the question in it. There is an interesting set of interviews of new innkeepers that was recently in the news that you may find interesting. I'm not sure what the author's experience is, but the young innkeepers had interesting things to say.innlover said:Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
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Hi Swirt,Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
I was told about this site and somehow managed to read a majority of topics that were very compelling to keep following but I ended up so stressed by the tension! I am relieved to read some lighter, but informative ones.
OH! Never mind! I understand now! It just came to me! How silly of me!
Oh well, rather than delete this I will just let it serve as a safe introduction. I need to remain anonymous for the sake of our current jobs; different lines of work, but I am amazed at how things get around!
Thanks!.Glad you figured it out, but just in case you run into other terms that are new to you, we have an ever expanding Innspiring Glossary.innlover said:Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
This sounded like help was being asked for but I'm not sure I see the question in it. There is an interesting set of interviews of new innkeepers that was recently in the news that you may find interesting. I'm not sure what the author's experience is, but the young innkeepers had interesting things to say.innlover said:Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
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Sorry for the confusion, I have been staying up way too late and getting up way too early and was beyond tired when I wrote that. I also think (understandably) you have me mixed up with someone else. To avoid confusion, I have corrected that.
By the way, thanks for the link, and you flatter me, because I don't fall in the young innkeeper category. Oh, wish that it were so! A new innkeeper someday, hopefully.
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I'm not sure what you did to correct it, you may have to email me off forum to explain.To avoid confusion, I have corrected that.
Okay, help me out here! I am new to this stuff, my husband and I are seriously thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Anyway, that is off the subject. I hesitate to ask, but hopefully it is safe. What is PITA?
I was told about this site and somehow managed to read a majority of topics that were very compelling to keep following but I ended up so stressed by the tension! I am relieved to read some lighter, but informative ones.
OH! Never mind! I understand now! It just came to me! How silly of me!
Oh well, rather than delete this I will just let it serve as a safe introduction. I need to remain anonymous for the sake of our current jobs; different lines of work, but I am amazed at how things get around!
Thanks!.I use the terms interchangeably while posting, but mostly because "inn" is a lot easier to type then "B&B" and because when speaking generally about innkeeping the terms are interchangeable. (I'm an innkeeper, not a B&Bkeeper.)Innlover said:thinking of changing careers and buying an inn or should I say B&B or B&B inn...it seems as though it is different depending on where you are in the country! (I found out that some innkeepers are very sensitive about this while many of us are clueless!)
Loosely though, I tend to think of an inn as a larger property (6 rooms or more), particularly the really large ones with staff and a restaurant on the premises.
There is an "inn" south of me... it's a restaurant and their sign prominently states "no overnight accommodations." Clearly the fact that their name includes the word "inn" (as well as the location, size, history, and style of their building) makes people think they're a B&B inn, even though it's clearly a restaurant.
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I hope I did this right...trying to respond to yellow socks. You made me laugh so hard about being an innkeeper not a B&Bkeeper! Funny how some things sound (i kept picturing a beekeeper with veiled hat).YellowSocks said:I use the terms interchangeably while posting, but mostly because "inn" is a lot easier to type then "B&B" and because when speaking generally about innkeeping the terms are interchangeable. (I'm an innkeeper, not a B&Bkeeper.)
There is an "inn" south of me... it's a restaurant and their sign prominently states "no overnight accommodations." Clearly the fact that their name includes the word "inn" (as well as the location, size, history, and style of their building) makes people think they're a B&B inn, even though it's clearly a restaurant.
Thanks so much, your welcome guy is so cute! I am not very computer savvy (love/hate relationship) so I am not sure what the difference is to reply or just write in the coment box...oh well, trial by error.Welcome Innlover.
Confusion aside, we're glad you're here. You arrived during a fall out here on the forum. Typically we are all a very cordial bunch.
Inn is an extension of Bed and Breakfast. Country Inn, larger B&B's can be inns, and you can simply call yourself an INN if you are a B&B. Plenty have "James White Bed and Breakfast Inn" I think it is just a new twist. I would not call someone doing more of a "homestay" an Inn, that is maybe the difference right there. Inn being a bit more upscale to a one, two or three room B&B?.
Thanks so much, your welcome guy is so cute! I am not very computer savvy (love/hate relationship) so I am not sure what the difference is to reply or just write in the coment box...oh well, trial by error.Welcome Innlover.
Confusion aside, we're glad you're here. You arrived during a fall out here on the forum. Typically we are all a very cordial bunch.
Inn is an extension of Bed and Breakfast. Country Inn, larger B&B's can be inns, and you can simply call yourself an INN if you are a B&B. Plenty have "James White Bed and Breakfast Inn" I think it is just a new twist. I would not call someone doing more of a "homestay" an Inn, that is maybe the difference right there. Inn being a bit more upscale to a one, two or three room B&B?.
So you welcomed fall with a fallout! (Sorry, corny, but I couldn't resist.) And I stepped unknowingly right in the middle of it I guess.
Whew, there sure is a lot to the name and to innkeeping, of course. I read a forum somewhere on here from an aspiring innkeeper and it had good info from you expert innkeepers to wannabes like me, but now I can't find it. She was introducing herself and her username was close to amkat (in case that rings a bell).
Oh well, I will keep reading and learning. (It is my husband I need to convince, he says he does not want to be a plumber at 3 in the morning.) Hmmm.
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You can learn plumbing, it's not that hard. I do all of the emergency stuff here... if it involves soldering it can wait until the morning and my contractor can do it. Having a plunger in each room keeps the 3 a.m. wake ups to a minimum.Innlover said:Oh well, I will keep reading and learning. (It is my husband I need to convince, he says he does not want to be a plumber at 3 in the morning.) Hmmm.
(It is my husband I need to convince,Thanks so much, your welcome guy is so cute! I am not very computer savvy (love/hate relationship) so I am not sure what the difference is to reply or just write in the coment box...oh well, trial by error.Welcome Innlover.
Confusion aside, we're glad you're here. You arrived during a fall out here on the forum. Typically we are all a very cordial bunch.
Inn is an extension of Bed and Breakfast. Country Inn, larger B&B's can be inns, and you can simply call yourself an INN if you are a B&B. Plenty have "James White Bed and Breakfast Inn" I think it is just a new twist. I would not call someone doing more of a "homestay" an Inn, that is maybe the difference right there. Inn being a bit more upscale to a one, two or three room B&B?.
So you welcomed fall with a fallout! (Sorry, corny, but I couldn't resist.) And I stepped unknowingly right in the middle of it I guess.
Whew, there sure is a lot to the name and to innkeeping, of course. I read a forum somewhere on here from an aspiring innkeeper and it had good info from you expert innkeepers to wannabes like me, but now I can't find it. She was introducing herself and her username was close to amkat (in case that rings a bell).
Oh well, I will keep reading and learning. (It is my husband I need to convince, he says he does not want to be a plumber at 3 in the morning.) Hmmm.
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The B&B may or may not fail. The marriage surely will fail.(It is my husband I need to convince,Thanks so much, your welcome guy is so cute! I am not very computer savvy (love/hate relationship) so I am not sure what the difference is to reply or just write in the coment box...oh well, trial by error.Welcome Innlover.
Confusion aside, we're glad you're here. You arrived during a fall out here on the forum. Typically we are all a very cordial bunch.
Inn is an extension of Bed and Breakfast. Country Inn, larger B&B's can be inns, and you can simply call yourself an INN if you are a B&B. Plenty have "James White Bed and Breakfast Inn" I think it is just a new twist. I would not call someone doing more of a "homestay" an Inn, that is maybe the difference right there. Inn being a bit more upscale to a one, two or three room B&B?.
So you welcomed fall with a fallout! (Sorry, corny, but I couldn't resist.) And I stepped unknowingly right in the middle of it I guess.
Whew, there sure is a lot to the name and to innkeeping, of course. I read a forum somewhere on here from an aspiring innkeeper and it had good info from you expert innkeepers to wannabes like me, but now I can't find it. She was introducing herself and her username was close to amkat (in case that rings a bell).
Oh well, I will keep reading and learning. (It is my husband I need to convince, he says he does not want to be a plumber at 3 in the morning.) Hmmm.
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If you need to convince him I have 3 words for you regarding opening a B & B: DON'T DO IT!!
Unless everyone in the household is TOTALLY on board, it will fail. Period!
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Sorry Gillumhouse, convince was a poor choice of words.
My husband and I have been together 20 years and i quickly I learned that we both have our own minds. Since that really is his only issue with it, I am trying to research whether it is feasible or not. Is it possible to have just the right size inn to make a profit, but not have him (or me!) be the sole source of middle of the night issues like plumbing?
I certainly don't want the B&B to fail, and the marriage failing is not an option either!
And once again I am showing my ignorance, but Muirford, what is a PO? You guys have a lingo all your own, or I have to get out more!.
I think Swirt posted the link to the glossary page for you. Search for 'glossary' and you should find the link to the list of all the shortcuts we use. PO is Previous Owner.Innlover said:Sorry Gillumhouse, convince was a poor choice of words.
My husband and I have been together 20 years and i quickly I learned that we both have our own minds. Since that really is his only issue with it, I am trying to research whether it is feasible or not. Is it possible to have just the right size inn to make a profit, but not have him (or me!) be the sole source of middle of the night issues like plumbing?
I certainly don't want the B&B to fail, and the marriage failing is not an option either!
And once again I am showing my ignorance, but Muirford, what is a PO? You guys have a lingo all your own, or I have to get out more!
The only other option is to have guests like the 2 guys who were here one night (did not know each other - just guests in 2 of my rooms) who when the sink was not draining and the plunger did not budge it, ended up having me get the tools (it was obvious DH could not do anything with his messed up hand (or it was right after his aneurysm and he was not functioning too well)) and the 2 of them took the plumbing apart, tried a snake to no avail, and ended up using an air thingamajig I had bought as a what the hell whim from the lets get rid of table - to blow whatever was the obstruction out of the way, get the drain draining again, and put it all back together. And they paid full rate in the morning!Sorry Gillumhouse, convince was a poor choice of words.
My husband and I have been together 20 years and i quickly I learned that we both have our own minds. Since that really is his only issue with it, I am trying to research whether it is feasible or not. Is it possible to have just the right size inn to make a profit, but not have him (or me!) be the sole source of middle of the night issues like plumbing?
I certainly don't want the B&B to fail, and the marriage failing is not an option either!
And once again I am showing my ignorance, but Muirford, what is a PO? You guys have a lingo all your own, or I have to get out more!.
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