Please have no fear over this. And do not assume anything.
I have 2 sisters who live in a group home. I don't know what we would have done without this option. They have lived in it for gosh It has to be almost 20 years now.
There is no way my 93 year old mother could do this and no way the rest of us could have either. I am so grateful for this option. They love living there, and there is no trouble whatsoever to the neighborhood.
Please don't assume this is a problem. Mentally challenged people are not criminals. Someitme they are physcially challenged as well. They will not be stalking anyone in the streets. They will be cared for and monitored closely.
This group of men, and it will be a very small group are supervised 24 /7. Some may have jobs they go to. If they interact with neighbors on the block, believe me it can be a good thing. Most are kind and loving and enjoy life.
Please let them enjoy their lives in a new home. You can be sure they are excited about it and their families will be greatly relieved as well. Imagine being a parent of a mentally handicapped child who grows to adulthood while you are aging as well. They worry constantly that their child will be taken care of when the time comes they can no longer do it. Wouldn't you want that for your child as well???
These men have the same needs as we do, food, clothing, shelter, and loving care.
P.S. I have actually thought that this might be a good thing for us to do with our home when we sell it..