WTF???? why on earth would they do that? This is one freaky person. I am guessing if they live there others in the county have the same opinion of them.So now the toxic freak has now called the health dept and the building dept on us. This is really working out to be a terrific year. The most amazing thing about this is he lives in this county and I have his address. I am not saying anything more about that, but would you be so ugly when someone has her address and your cc information?.
This has crossed over to obsessive. If this is personal and persistent, it could get worse. Be circumspect in your reactions, frank but calm and non-personal about the motivation behind the calls when responding to authorities. The officials may have encountered communications from this source before. The high-road is the best strategy here. I've encountered this kind of behavior before, fortunately not in inn-keeping. It is amazing how some can only get their own sense of self-worth by attempting to destroy others. And the effect is fleeting. They must always seek a new target in order to keep bolstering their own sense of self. Playing one-upmanship, or any other kind of escalating only feeds this. Ideally, the bully's efforts should just quietly come to naught. Unfortunately, the bully will move to the next target. I'm so sorry this is happening now. You are a person of integrity and kindness. You have the good wishes and respect of your fellow innkeepers, oops, I meant inn-mates.So now the toxic freak has now called the health dept and the building dept on us. This is really working out to be a terrific year. The most amazing thing about this is he lives in this county and I have his address. I am not saying anything more about that, but would you be so ugly when someone has her address and your cc information?.
I had a person very close to this . She tried to bad mark us. We took the high road. Yes it did hurt us for a few years but we recovered. But in my heart I did not! There is no words that can make you feel better. But just know we all understand where you are coming from .WTF???? why on earth would they do that? This is one freaky person. I am guessing if they live there others in the county have the same opinion of them.So now the toxic freak has now called the health dept and the building dept on us. This is really working out to be a terrific year. The most amazing thing about this is he lives in this county and I have his address. I am not saying anything more about that, but would you be so ugly when someone has her address and your cc information?.
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This has crossed over to obsessive. If this is personal and persistent, it could get worse. Be circumspect in your reactions, frank but calm and non-personal about the motivation behind the calls when responding to authorities. The officials may have encountered communications from this source before. The high-road is the best strategy here. I've encountered this kind of behavior before, fortunately not in inn-keeping. It is amazing how some can only get their own sense of self-worth by attempting to destroy others. And the effect is fleeting. They must always seek a new target in order to keep bolstering their own sense of self. Playing one-upmanship, or any other kind of escalating only feeds this. Ideally, the bully's efforts should just quietly come to naught. Unfortunately, the bully will move to the next target. I'm so sorry this is happening now. You are a person of integrity and kindness. You have the good wishes and respect of your fellow innkeepers, oops, I meant inn-mates.So now the toxic freak has now called the health dept and the building dept on us. This is really working out to be a terrific year. The most amazing thing about this is he lives in this county and I have his address. I am not saying anything more about that, but would you be so ugly when someone has her address and your cc information?.
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Thank you. You know that is what we said here when he was here, DH said "He is lucky I was not here!" and then we said "That is why he was acting this way" Sure he would bull-doze anyone and everyone, but having a man at the helm vs the "little woman" can make a huge difference some times.Anon Inn said:This has crossed over to obsessive. If this is personal and persistent, it could get worse. Be circumspect in your reactions, frank but calm and non-personal about the motivation behind the calls when responding to authorities. The officials may have encountered communications from this source before. The high-road is the best strategy here. I've encountered this kind of behavior before, fortunately not in inn-keeping. It is amazing how some can only get their own sense of self-worth by attempting to destroy others. And the effect is fleeting. They must always seek a new target in order to keep bolstering their own sense of self. Playing one-upmanship, or any other kind of escalating only feeds this. Ideally, the bully's efforts should just quietly come to naught. Unfortunately, the bully will move to the next target. I'm so sorry this is happening now. You are a person of integrity and kindness. You have the good wishes and respect of your fellow innkeepers, oops, I meant inn-mates.
This is the same PITA who thought ~1600 feet was too far to walk to the performance center?.
Yes. I actually called down there to warn them about him. They basically have experience with every sort of nut in the 40 years of music business and it is nothing new. Am I going to be having more of this sort now that the venue is open? Not saying he had anything whatsoever to do with music, but was going to a show there. I pray not.Harborfields said:This is the same PITA who thought ~1600 feet was too far to walk to the performance center?
we have 1 theatre - music/plays all sorts 800 seatsThis is the same PITA who thought ~1600 feet was too far to walk to the performance center?.Yes. I actually called down there to warn them about him. They basically have experience with every sort of nut in the 40 years of music business and it is nothing new. Am I going to be having more of this sort now that the venue is open? Not saying he had anything whatsoever to do with music, but was going to a show there. I pray not.Harborfields said:This is the same PITA who thought ~1600 feet was too far to walk to the performance center?
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I've had a couple jerks here when my husband was away. The jerks do tend to take advantage of a woman - that's why when he goes away now, he makes me close. So he get's a vacation and I get a vacation and he doesn't have to worry about anyone treating me badly. (I was against this at first losing income but he insists!) He does all check-ins and being ex-military he sets the tone. Now this doesn't mean PITAs won't be pains, but the jerks realize they can't get away with as much. So sorry for you, it will quickly pass.This has crossed over to obsessive. If this is personal and persistent, it could get worse. Be circumspect in your reactions, frank but calm and non-personal about the motivation behind the calls when responding to authorities. The officials may have encountered communications from this source before. The high-road is the best strategy here. I've encountered this kind of behavior before, fortunately not in inn-keeping. It is amazing how some can only get their own sense of self-worth by attempting to destroy others. And the effect is fleeting. They must always seek a new target in order to keep bolstering their own sense of self. Playing one-upmanship, or any other kind of escalating only feeds this. Ideally, the bully's efforts should just quietly come to naught. Unfortunately, the bully will move to the next target. I'm so sorry this is happening now. You are a person of integrity and kindness. You have the good wishes and respect of your fellow innkeepers, oops, I meant inn-mates.So now the toxic freak has now called the health dept and the building dept on us. This is really working out to be a terrific year. The most amazing thing about this is he lives in this county and I have his address. I am not saying anything more about that, but would you be so ugly when someone has her address and your cc information?.
.Thank you. You know that is what we said here when he was here, DH said "He is lucky I was not here!" and then we said "That is why he was acting this way" Sure he would bull-doze anyone and everyone, but having a man at the helm vs the "little woman" can make a huge difference some times.Anon Inn said:This has crossed over to obsessive. If this is personal and persistent, it could get worse. Be circumspect in your reactions, frank but calm and non-personal about the motivation behind the calls when responding to authorities. The officials may have encountered communications from this source before. The high-road is the best strategy here. I've encountered this kind of behavior before, fortunately not in inn-keeping. It is amazing how some can only get their own sense of self-worth by attempting to destroy others. And the effect is fleeting. They must always seek a new target in order to keep bolstering their own sense of self. Playing one-upmanship, or any other kind of escalating only feeds this. Ideally, the bully's efforts should just quietly come to naught. Unfortunately, the bully will move to the next target. I'm so sorry this is happening now. You are a person of integrity and kindness. You have the good wishes and respect of your fellow innkeepers, oops, I meant inn-mates.
I don't want to think about him, and how awful he was I want to focus on the good things in life!
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any update?Building inspector is here. Will report more shortly.
Fortunately we know him, DH used to work with him..
any update?Building inspector is here. Will report more shortly.
Fortunately we know him, DH used to work with him..
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DH is out talking with him on theporch. I heard him say "Sorry to drag you out for this" and as DH led him upstairs "Our last guests checked out today and survived..." yeah men, funny ha ha.Joey Camb said:any update?
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