wendydk
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I agree with Moosetrax and Samster and Cooperhead. Before they arrive, remember that they are coming for their anniversary, and focus on the positive and not the negative circumstances...you get what you expect to get...if you're uptight and stand with fists clenched at the door, you're gonna get a fistfight.
Greet them personally and warmly at the door, and by all means acknowledge the circumstances. You cannot pretend that it never happened. Explain to them about the upgrade, if that's what you choose to do, and make sure they know that you appreciate the fact that their daughter chose your place for their special occasion and that you are making an attempt to smooth things over and to ensure that they have the best possible time for their anniversary. The extras are a very nice touch, and for the cost, well worth it. If you have some flowers you can pluck out of the garden and put in a little vase, all the better.
MANY MANY positive experiences have come out of negative beginnings. Kill them with kindness and give them an anniversary they'll never forget. Regardless of how the whole thing turns out, you'll know that you did all you could to make their stay spectacular. If they can unclench enough to enjoy it, all the better! If they don't, it won't be because you didn't do everything possible. After all, you have the money, you have to hold up your end of the bargain, right?
You never know...do it right and they (and/or their daughter) may turn out to be great repeat guests.
Greet them personally and warmly at the door, and by all means acknowledge the circumstances. You cannot pretend that it never happened. Explain to them about the upgrade, if that's what you choose to do, and make sure they know that you appreciate the fact that their daughter chose your place for their special occasion and that you are making an attempt to smooth things over and to ensure that they have the best possible time for their anniversary. The extras are a very nice touch, and for the cost, well worth it. If you have some flowers you can pluck out of the garden and put in a little vase, all the better.
MANY MANY positive experiences have come out of negative beginnings. Kill them with kindness and give them an anniversary they'll never forget. Regardless of how the whole thing turns out, you'll know that you did all you could to make their stay spectacular. If they can unclench enough to enjoy it, all the better! If they don't, it won't be because you didn't do everything possible. After all, you have the money, you have to hold up your end of the bargain, right?
You never know...do it right and they (and/or their daughter) may turn out to be great repeat guests.